Tag: 2023

  • The November 2023 Review

    The November 2023 Review

    There’s not a lot to report for this month as I had been consumed by Nanowrimo.

    Book template courtesy of Canva.
    NaNoWriMo 2023: Dreaming of Water (Mystery, Thriller & Suspense, Erotic, Romance)

    Nanowrimo

    When August saved Lydia from a reoccurring nightmare, he was only curious. The Dreamwalker was pushing the boundary of his newfound powers after learning that he could control some part of the dreaming – his and others.

    But the source of Lydia’s nightmare would not tolerate outside interference. Even as they grew to look forward to their dreamtime dalliances, August’s meddling had only complicated Lydia’s predicament and made him question his morality.

    When dreamtime fantasies and the real world collide, August realises that the stakes are very real, and the outcome is going to be fatal for one of them.

    …or at least that was the plan. When you’re pantsing it, things rarely work out the way you thought, but that’s part of the fun.

    Do I enjoy writing a novel as a full time job? Yes and no. I did indeed had the flexibility to do nothing but write a book for one month solid, but it’s because I’m between work projects. Add in the expected sprinkling of “what the heck am I doing” and “this isn’t making any sense” and the standard amount of self-loathing.

    Dreaming of Water is based on the two short stories I wrote during Stories on Fire, which in turn was based on a collaborative Storium game/story (DOL) with a friend. This story predates DOL, featuring a Dreamwalker that had a significant cameo in one chapter. I didn’t know where I was going with it. I just wanted to explore his story. It’s hard to figure out what genre this falls under – The Dreamlands can be anything you want it to be, and I happen lean more into medieval fantasy.

    I completed Nanowrimo with 50,031 words, but the story is not done. I’m not sure if I will continue or if I’m going to start breaking it down and resequencing the entire narrative. I’ve already written down the ending in bullet points but the journey there has become muddied. There are things that I wanted to happen after other things, but because I was out of ideas, it ended up where it ended up.

    I guess I’ll give it a couple of months. Apparently January is Stories on Fire month again, and I may give it another shot.

    Gaming

    Nothing new to report other than my house is coming along. I spent most of November doing the bare minimum, which is to farm on my plot and sell produce, with the occasional run outside to mine, forage and hunt. Decorating has been subject to inspiration. For example, I had no idea how to populate this trophy room until I was inspired to turn it into a study. This view shows off the desk the best, but the background is still a work in progress.

    Coming Next

    • With Nanowrimo out of the way, I have more time to forus on tarot reading. If you want to get one, you can order it here. If you are an IRL contact, you can opt for an in-person reading. Just get in touch with me to make arrangements.
    • December will hopefully see me editing some of the short stories I wrote in September and looking into submitting them somewhere, even it’s it’s just AO3.
    • I also plan on making another crack at moving the stuff and things out of my room and get them donated or set aside for the next preloved market.

    Links Roundup

    A no-commentary list of articles and media I found interesting enough to share on my Discord server.

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  • The October 2023 Review

    The October 2023 Review

    Report is late because my time is entirely consumed by Nanowrimo.

    Site News & Updates

    A number of my pages or blog entries now have a new addition on top of the page:

    Clicking it will open up a hidden section describing the changes to that page. The reason for this is because I’ll be updating any relevant posts with new information from now on. It seems redundant to create a whole new page for something that might be more fitting for a social media post (and if you’re reading this, you know I don’t really do social media anymore). It’s something called a digital garden, where something is planted and then tended to as necessary. Updated pages will be listed on my main page.

    Work

    This month sees us wrapping up ‘Inside SSPCA‘, a magazine released during Asia for Animals 2023. You can read more of my thoughts at the links, and download the digital version here.

    The other thing at AfA was my first ever gig as a conference rapporteur. The job scope for a rapporteur is to sit in on papers being presented and capture the main points. To an extent, it was similar to a reporter’s job except you record more things, not just the parts that will make it into your article. The points are then compiled into daily reports.

    For AfA 2023, we have a stagger total of 80 papers across three streams. There were three rapporteurs and three reports across three days of the conference. For most part, I was typing down notes and squinting at the projector far in front of the Grand Hall at BCCK. These don’t get immediately resolved into points that I would send in, which meant we spend a good hour at the end of the conference day getting our notes into some semblence of order.

    These notes are meant to go to the organiser, and subsequently to any stakeholders up the pipeline. In our case, we were asked to compile points from Day One and Two for a minister to catch up on before he arrived to close the conference.

    It was a gruelling introduction to rapporteur work because it was a huge conference. I was invited back to rapporteur for another conference with only one stream and two days, and the workload looked manageable by one person. However, I knew I would be exhausted from coming out of one market and needing enough rest for the next.

    Markets & Bazaars

    Some of the new owners of my preloved books.

    I participated in two markets this month. The first was the second edition of Trunkie Junkie, which took place at Cafe Cafe early in the month. Once again, I teamed up with my pal Ronnie. The crowd was awesome. We sold a lot more than we did in the first Trunkie Junkie, and saw a lot of friends and other book lovers. Happy to have let go a good number of excellent titles.

    The Pay Day Bazaar at La Promenade Mall was a marathon (6 days) where Trunkie Junkie was a sprint (6 hours). I was eyeing it but didn’t want to go out alone – I only had so many books. Once I learned that a friend has secured a table, I asked if I could have a corner.

    The bazaar was a relatively tiny one (3-4 tables), but there were several other events happening at the mall on the first weekend. We did pretty well, and I sold nearly half of what I had in my stock, which leaves me with the interesting problem of not having many books left to bring to the next market. These titles didn’t move through three markets, and I don’t expect them to do too well in any upcoming ones. I’ll probably do a last ditch, either at another upcoming market as a supplementary product, or put them online.

    The bazaar was comfortable. The mall’s social media people took photos and updated every day. Eve and Irene were cold all the time, and my running joke was, “I’m not cold, I’m fat”. Overall, it was 6 days across two weekends of catching up with all the news because I didn’t spend a lot of time with either of them since I left The Borneo Post.

    But it was a full time job, and I needed 2-3 business days to recover after each weekend.

    Our table at the mall. Photos courtesy of La Promenade.

    Gaming

    This month on Palia, I’m focused on building my home. This involves grinding for gold through hunting and farming, and collecting enough resources to build pieces of furniture. Above is what you see when you enter my house. It’s still a work-in-progress and I’ve tweaked it since. And everyone here is a zookeeper – the starred (high quality) fishes and bugs can be used for display, and if we’re not desperate for gold, it goes on display. I’ve seen far larger collections than mine forming a labyrinth over the player’s plot, least you think this is a lot of tanks.

    At the same time, I’m bidding a “goodbye for now” to Storium. The momentum ended when I had to step away in July, which I felt little guilt for doing because it was hitting summer when the whole site just seems to go into hibernation.

    Truth is I’m tired of trying to get things going, and I’m tired of waiting around for other people. This is an acceptable past time when I don’t have anything better to do, but I’m back to working on my own creative writing and I cannot multitask the same set of muscles on different projects. Plus, the likelihood of completing my own projects is 100% on me and not divided between a few players who has other priorities.

     

    Coming Next

    • NaNoWriMo 2023: I didn’t think that I would want to dive headlong into another month of writing so soon after Stories on Fire, but here I am. I’m updating this 18th Nov and have plenty to say but it’ll have to wait until December. Meanwhile, feel free to add me as a buddy.

    Links Roundup

    A no-commentary list of articles and media I found interesting enough to share on my Discord server.

  • The September 2023 Review

    The September 2023 Review

    This month was as busy as I expected and I’m out of breath just thinking about it. Here are some highlights.

    Work

    As anticipated, September was busy because all the work came bottlenecking into this month. It’s partly my fault because I could have followed up sooner, but instead I waited like I wasn’t the one in charge here. That’s a pretty strange feeling – that I was in charge of getting things together and had people in my team. It’s certainly given me a new perspective and a sense of appreciation for a solid, well-rounded crew – my assistant editor who picked up all the loose ends, and the layout editor who got absorbed into my team when I realised that made more sense.

    I think it’s pretty cool that this is an all-women team, and it went with minimal drama. Solid team. Job done. Can’t wait to see the magazine in print.

    Irene C’s Wedding

    My friend’s wedding dinner proved to be a fantastic reunion situation for me and my media friends, most of whom I haven’t seen since leaving the industry. There was plenty to catch up on and connections to reforge. I was in the local media for nearly 14 years so that’s a lot of people to say hello to and repeat the story of where I am now. Thanks to Irene for this opportunity, and congrats to you and Shakiru on the wedding!

    TTRPG

    Seni Kita by HAUS was quite a lot of fun. My talk went well, although I’m not sure how many people were even listening. The Saturday group was already in session with Tiny Dungeons by then. I wasn’t playing, so I floated around, catching up with old friends and making new ones. I had a fantastic time, but I really over-extroverted myself.

    For the second weekend, I went there to check out the other booths and hang out with friends. Ended up giving a couple of oracle and tarot readings. Maybe that’s a booth to consider in the future? Anyway, I was inspired to start work on some of my chapbooks in the backburner, and explore the art/preloved market scene a bit more. That’s my plan for the remainder of the year.

    Anyway, if you are in Kuching and want in on the TTRPG action, email me or hit me up via Mastodon. You can also add our Game Master Eric on Instagram.

    Gaming

    I’m still playing Palia. It’s a nice, no-stress way to unwind so I’m not bored yet because there’s plenty that I have not unlocked. I’m also working on setting up my house, but my decorating skill is as bad as it is in real life.

    The image above is a corner of the innkeeper Ashura’s private room. If you’ve played, you’d know that Ashura’s wife had died (I forgot if he ever told me why). I found this little shrine situation here and I think it’s pretty sweet. The details though! That portrait of her is gorgeous. There’s also a gravestone for her in the Rememberence Garden, and Ashura visits every day.

    I’ve also been seeing a lot of Baldur’s Gate 3 content on Instagram. I wasn’t feeling very compelled to play until the multiple livestream recordings of people reacting to Astarion’s romance arc. *fans self* I’m still not gonna spend over RM200 on a game I’m not likely to finish.

    Stories on Fire

    I’m not sure which was more insane – me joining a challenge to write one short story every day of the month during one of the busiest months of my year, or me actually concluding it at 26 out of 30 stories. (I would have done 30/30 if I didn’t sabotage myself on work and Seni Kita weekend.)

    At some point soon, I’ll elaborate about the experience on the Stories on Fire page, where you can currently find my catalogue of titles and descriptions. I’m glad I joined. Some of these stories will get polished and sent somewhere.

    Twitch

    Along with SoF, I’ll have to mention some progress on Twitch. This month, I cracked past 50 followers and all the way to 70, thanks to me being online more than usual, and getting raided by a few Twitch friends. Not bad for someone who hasn’t had her mic on all month because my old USB port won’t stay connected and I had to prioritise my mouse and keyboard. It’s fixed now. I’ll figure out how I want to do this moving forward.

    I do plan on redoing my scenes. They got increasingly more cluttered as I added things to it. I want to simplify, or at least, organise it better, and I’m waiting for the right mindset to add a to-do list to the stream. I think I’m settling into the writing/coworking side of the community, although I do plan on working on some crafting in the coming weeks.

    Pelikan Hub

    Pelikan Hub 2023 was a pleasant affair. A bunch of regulars and a handful of new people who are proving to be great additions. My duty as Hub Master was fairly painless, except then I had to draw an outline of that cat on our banner and realised I’m so rusty at art that it took me much longer than it should. I came to the meet with a box, and left without it. Everything was given away, including the banner and the Hub Master’s gift.

    The group separated into two tables – the main one with all the inks and pens being wielded, and a smaller one where we’d just sat and chatted. I was happy for the latter since I was rather over-extended by that week, but I’m also happy that the bigger group bonded quickly. One of our newcomers packed a gift of stationary for everyone, which was unexpected but sweet.

    Coming Next

    • I am participating in two marketplaces in October – Trunkie Junkie, and the Pay Day Bazaar at La Promenade. I’ll be hawking off my preloved books at both.
    • I also plan to experiment with making chapbooks. I got a couple of things ready to go but have yet to get my shit together.
    • I’m exploring the digital garden concept of maintaining a website. There’s a link below if you’re interested.
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    Links Roundup

    A no-commentary list of articles and media I found interesting enough to share on my Discord server.

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  • The August 2023 Review

    The August 2023 Review

    August was full of waiting around.

    Work

    So this month, I’m working on a small magazine as its editor. It’s likely going to be a one-off, although the clients suggested they might want to publish more regularly in a year. This is all good with me and my assistant editor. It uses a skill set we already have, with additional aspects to learn. Our timeline did fall out the window though. Because we needed to reach out to a lot of busy people, we’re still waiting to hear back from most of them while working on things that are within our control. I expect that September is going to be very busy since we will need to start finalising some of those pages for our layout designer.

    TTRPG

    While I have not played a game this month due to scheduling conflicts, it turns out that we’re going to Seni Kita by HAUS KCH. Eric will be running a couple of games on the weekend of Sept 16-17, and I will be talking about TTRPG as a subculture in Kuching and why women should play. More about that when the time draws near, but we may have 1-2 slots available at the table on both days if you want to check it out.

    Gaming

    Since my last update, I’ve been enthralled with two games, namely Dave the Diver, and Palia.

    Screenshot from Dave the Diver, showing a boat on the waters at night, with a sushi restaurant illuminated in the background.
    Dave the Diver and business partner Cobra in a boat at night.

    Much have been said about Dave the Diver. It’s an underwater exploration game and a restaurant management game. There is a vegetable and fish farming component, and some mini games. The underwater part was educational since the creatures you meet there are mostly real sea creatures. The loading screen helpfully introduces you to the denizens that you will spear or that will try to kill you. The NPCs are quirky and memorable. There are loads of cutscenes and they are all awesome and hilarious. I finished it fairly quickly and kept on playing to collect a few other creatures that eluded me.

    And then came Palia.

    A screenshot from the game Palia, featuring my character in the centre, waving at the "camera". Behind her is part of the village and further back is a stone mountain with a crescent carved out of the peak.
    My Palia avatar waving at the “camera” from somewhere in the village.

    At time of writing, Palia is under open beta, so some things still break, and some skills don’t seem worth developing (looking at you, Furniture Making), it’s a nice, no-stress, game where you can explore the world and build your character at your own speed. Quests unlock as you level up your skills or discover something in the world, and are not time-sensitive. If other players are involved, it’s more about cooperation than competition. I haven’t opened Steam since Palia came out in closed beta.

    r/Writers Discord

    When I joined the r/Writers Discord, I did not expect much. The subreddit was okay, moving at a speed that I was comfortable with. I’m aware there are other writing subreddits, but I didn’t want to overwhelm my homepage. One of the mods started a Discord and I was one of the first to join. Before long, I volunteered to manage the channels and community. Now it’s my favourite Discord server and writing community – with a range of writing and publishing experiences, and people who are friendly and generous with their knowledge.

    I run a few Discord servers, but this is the biggest one that requires more attention. I want the community to have some ownership to the place, so I always like to say the mods are here to provide support and advice if you want to run/lead something on the server, but don’t leave us holding the bag. With our membership quickly approaching 500, I think it’s time to appoint more mods and hand over some of my duties.

    Other Matters

    • I signed up for a challenge to write one short story every day in September. Short stories isn’t my wheelhouse, and I doubt if I’ll be able to churn one out every day, so this would be interesting. Updates here.
    • Looking forward to a friend and ex-colleague’s wedding reception on Sept 2!
    • Pelikan Hub Kuching on Sept 22, which you can read about in my previous blog entry linked. September is going to be busy!

    Links Roundup

    A no-commentary list of articles and media I found interesting enough to share on my Discord server.

  • Taking a SWOT at myself

    I participated in a little get-to-know-you on Reddit earlier this year and someone started a SWOT analysis of their personality, which many of us liked and copied. Here’s mine in a formal-looking slide:

    Strength: Creative, non-judgemental, punctual, problem-solver. I know what I like or don't like and refuse to let anyone shame me. Will probably remember everything you told me.

Weakness: Long recovery time. Like being indoors, but doesn't like non-interactive activities (ie movies) when with friends. Food.

Opportunity: Will try nearly anything at least once, as long as it doesn't harm anyone or anything.

Threat: Not present when busy. Will ghost if energy is not matched.  I know what I like or don't like and refuse to let anyone shame me. Will probably remember everything you told me.

    Of course, this is purely from my perspective. A third party might have something different to say.

    What would yours say?

  • Pelikan Hub Kuching 2023

    Pelikan Hub Kuching 2023


    [Planted: 20 August 2023 | Last tended: 20 October 2023]

    Click for changelog

    Added 2023 report to the bottom.


    I agreed to take on the role of Hub Master for this year’s Pelikan Hub.

    If this event is unfamiliar to you, it is an annual international meet-up organised by Pelikan every 22 September, and facilitated by Hub Masters in participating cities. You need 7 sign-ups before a city is confirmed. This is the third or fourth year Kuching is a hub, and my first time as Hub Master.

    An envelope with the words "To the Hub Master" visible.

    Sign-ups this year kicked of really early. There was a “save the date” aka pre-sign-up, followed by the actual sign-up that was only available to those who registered interest early. There were some unhappy noises from those who missed the “save the date”. Given that 2022’s participation was through the roof, I think this is a way of crowd control.

    When spreading the word, we’ve always had to explain a number of things to other fountain pen users.

    No, you don’t have to be a Pelikan user. But you inevidebly end up being one because they usually give out their Ink of the Year during these hubs and you end up using it if that’s your first pot of Pelikan ink.

    No, you don’t have to be a massive fountain pen nerd. There certainly are regulars in our group who know their fountain pens and own very fancy ones, but I’m happy with my small collection of affordable pens. Gets the job done. Never mind I barely use them because I’m on the computer most of the time.

    Is it too late to join? No. You don’t get the goodies that Pelikan sent (it has arrived for our 15 registered hubbers), but you’re still welcome to join an evening of fellowship with other fountain pen users. We are always happy to get your fingers inky.

    The best way to reach us is either through our Facebook group Fountain Pen Kuching, or my email in the main sidebar. I probably won’t book a place until early next month, so there’s time.

    Here’s to a great Hub!

    A group of people behind a banner that says Pelikan Hub 2022. They are all smiling. Some are flashing V fingers.
    Pelikan Hub 2022

    Pelikan Hub Kuching 2023 Report

    This year’s Pelikan Hub had 15 registrations. Three were absent – two were travelling and one forgot. The goods were handed out. The big table broke out all the pens and inks and paper after dinner, while the little table engaged in conversation. It was a situation that happened organically, and it was nice. Everybody took care of themselves and each other. My social batteries were low so I was at the small table. A bunch of new people joined us, so that was nice. I hope to see them during our regular meets.

    As a Hub Master, my role went smoothly. My aim was to leave without the mailing box I came with, and I succeeded. The banner went home with the previous Hub Master. I drew the cat outline on it at home and that took forever; the group helped fill it in with the provided black markers. The Hub Master’s gift was claimed, so were the spare name labels and markers. The smaller boxes were reused to pack their goodies.

    The stint as Hub Master exposed me to the world of international Hub Masters, where I learned of potential drama that may arise when your group gets too big. We are currently a comfortably small group that can be overseen by one distracted person making only the barest minimum effort (ie book a venue, be the parcel recipient for your city, some basic admin and speaking skills).

    Bigger groups, my estimate is any group bigger than 20, may not have the luxury of booking a few tables at a local cafe for the price of dinner. Some cities run these as literal events – with extra door gifts, lucky draws, activities, etc. One hub sent out a form asking participants to RSVP with a small fee to help with booking a venue, which a hubber indignantly took to the FB group. Another Hub Master told me that yes, she paid to book the venue but left a donation box to let anyone help with defraying the cost, which works well if your participants are considerate or you can afford not to get your money back.

    It’s rather upsetting to think that some people expect the Hub Master to foot any venue booking fee, and it’s definitely not a burden I expect a future Hub Master to bear alone. For the moment, it helps that we’re a small group that meets up periodically through the year, and will likely communicate any problems.

    We ended the night by launching a WhatsApp group to facilite communication.

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  • The March-July 2023 Review

    The March-July 2023 Review

    I started writing a March review, but that subsequent quarter completely derailed with work and personal matters. I’ll write what I remember.

    Digital Migrations

    I‘m coming close to completing completed my password migration out of LastPass and to BitWarden. As if the breach wasn’t bad enough, they were hit with another security incident. Someone is trying real hard to get a bunch of passwords, likely not mine, and I don’t want to hang around for the next round of breaches. LastPass is now in the past.

    The other digital migration I had to do in April was this entire website. Of course, I waited till the last minute – IPserverone was up for renewal but they are also terminating the service I’m on at the end of this year. There is no refund or discount for months that are not used, and I cannot afford to pay for services that I will not receive.

    I moved to Shinjuru. They were very helpful and walked me through a few hurdles that I didn’t know were there. My domain was still registered to the friend who helped me sign up years ago, and I couldn’t even remember his name offhand. Thank goodness for an extensive network. We reconnected and I owe him coffee.

    I have yet to finalise migrating out of Evernote. I tried several others and thought I would settle on Obsidian. But I had a syncing mishap that resulted in me losing an entire page of work, so my trust has yet to return.

    Work

    There was a lot of unplanned post-production with with the TV show that sprawled over the second quarter, but I’m happy to say that the show is a wrap now and out of our hands.

    A joint pitch earlier in the year didn’t pan out to anything, but I was approached by some work contacts about a surprisingly similar job, which I was happy to accept because I have worked with that organisation before, and it is a step-up in job scope. Instead of being just a writer, I’m the editor. I have the skill set for it and am excited about the opportunity to try it out.

    This would cover me until the end of September, so I’ll be available for new projects October onwards!

    TTRPG

    Over the past two weeks, I got to play Blades in the Dark with the Aunties, and Tiny Dungeon with a group I’ve never played with before. The world of Blades is fascinating, but there’s a lot to grasp. We have another session planned – for some reason, part of the team was always missing. For the original session, I was one of those missing due to a family crisis.

    Tiny Dungeon was easier to grasp and the group was fun. I adore getting to play a treefolk, and we want to do this again as a group.

    Other Games

    I have stopped playing two of my mainstays – Shop Titan and Storium. I didn’t have the space for them during the family crisis in June. With Shop Titan, I simply stopped logging in. I’ve been wanting to leave the game for a while, but habit kept me going back to do the minimum. It’s actually rather nice to stop doing that. The game kinda lost its appeal a long time ago, and I was only keeping the guild open for the newer players.

    With Storium, I didn’t have a lot of active games running. It’s summer, so the place is partially comatose anyway. I don’t feel like I’m missing much. I took a break from the new big game, handed over one game to another narrator, and told one game that I’ll be closing it by a certain date whether or not they made their closing move. Anyway, “Home. Where?” is my first and only completed game that I narrated. I’m proud of the concept and format, and the players who made it possible.

  • The February 2023 Review

    The February 2023 Review

    For a short month, February was unexpectedly busy.

    Work

    Work picked up. A friend and occasional client asked if I could write down a story for him. He had an idea but didn’t know how to flesh it out. I stopped by his new studio, listened to his pitch and was able to elaborate on it from there. A week later, I had a full story. Last I heard, they were off to pitch it to some potential funders. If all goes well, I might have a film project by the third quarter of this year.

    Aunties versus…

    The Aunties together with our game master Eric (centre).

    Back before MCO hit, I finally got around to playing Dungeons & Dragons, and it was a good time. However, it shouldn’t surprise anyone that it’s a very male-dominated community and women generally stay away from it because it sounds like something pimply teenage males play. Should I elaborate on this one of these days? Perhaps. But for now, here’s a podcast episode I made about my first game, including some live plays. (Available wherever you listen to podcasts.)

    At some point, I commented to the only other woman in my group that I would expect a D&D game to be different if a female DM ran it. She agreed. There are no female DMs in Kuching (that I know of). D&D is too complicated for my two brain cells, and after WotC’s misstep with the OGL, I found even less reason to attempt it.

    However, the seed was sown. I gathered together my girlfriends who are interested in trying out TTRPGs with the intention of teaching myself an easy indie system. Eric, who is in some of my other local interest groups, happened to be a game master interested in various systems. After attending one of his games, I told him what I was trying to do and he offered to run a game for us.

    We met at The Chop Shop to play an Index Card RPG adventure. We had a blast and are definitely doing it again. I have tentatively named our group “Aunties versus” because we certainly qualify for the title based on our age. Interested to try out TTRPG and can spare a weekend afternoon one of these days? Email is on the main page.

    Site Matters

    I received news in mid-February that my webhosting will no longer be continuing the service I’m on and their cloud hosting is far beyond my budget. I have until the end of the year to migrate, so I’m currently investigating options. I’ve had Shinjuru and Exabytes recommended to me on Malaysia reddit, so I need to find some time to sit down and make decisions.

  • Creating a firework bunker for the dog

    Creating a firework bunker for the dog

    Ah, festive seasons in Malaysia. Any excuse to shoot fireworks into the sky because other people are richer than me.

    But what really pisses me off is that it terrorises my dog, causing her to refuse walks and toilet time, which is not ideal because she refuses to go on our property. She would only do it when we’re out for a walk.

    If Girlie Dog was caught outside when the fireworks go off, she would squeeze under my car or into the tiny legroom of the table in the corner of the porch. But being inside didn’t seem to be any better. She still paced, looking for somewhere quieter, and usually settling under my legs under my computer desk.

    In the foreground is a dog looking slightly towards the right of the photo. In the background (right), a biscuit sits on top of a car tire. On the left is an old-fashioned computer piled with boxes.

    And let’s be honest, the best place for a dog to hide from fireworks and get some of that sound-muffling quality is under my bed. The problem was that I have boxes and tubs under the bed, and I’ve been putting off figuring out what to do with them.

    Things really got rolling when I saw a rug listed for a giveaway on the local “Buy Nothing” group. It turned out to be someone living just one lorong away from me. I went by the same evening to collect it.

    The rug was lightweight and fairly large. It was a shade somewhere between salmon and pink, made up of soft fluff that was easily pulled away at the edges. It would probably disintegrate if I washed it. Instead, I beat out the dust, vacuumed it thoroughly and left it in the sun to freshen it up before slipping it under my bed. I had to move a lot of boxes around to make room, but it was done.

    It wasn’t that hard to teach the dog that it was her new space. She is a polite dog and I never had to deal with her getting into places where she shouldn’t be (unless there’s food involved). I lured her with some popcorn, throwing them deeper and deeper under the bed. She willingly belly-crawled inside, which was easy and comfortable since the bed had double the height clearance of my car.

    On the days leading up to CNY eve, Girlie snoozed on my bedroom floor after dinner and eventually learned how to retreat under my bed when the fireworks outside got too loud. I am very pleased with how well this worked.

    A dog is asleep on a pink rug under a bed. Her paws are crossed on top of each others and nearer to the camera so they look enormous.

    I even added an LED light bar so that I can check on her from time to time. It was pretty dark under there. If you look closely at the photo above, you’ll see that I also set up privacy curtains for maximum noise-dampening.

    I ran a non-scientific sound test with my phone camera, recording the noise level at the height of the fireworks and then plunging the phone deep under the bed where the dog was hiding. The noise was muffled by more than half its volume. I wanted to crawl under there with the dog.

    Girlie Dog spent most of the CNY nights there. It was nice to have her in the room, and nice that she has her own space tucked away from my already limited floor space. I suppose the only part that wasn’t nice was when she woke me by noisily licking her privates in the dead of night.

    Firework season is over and I’ve packed the rug away. The dog has returned to her hammock bed on the porch, where she can closely monitor neighbourhood activity. The space under my bed remains empty while I look for the energy to de-own stuff that used to be there.

  • The January 2023 Review

    The January 2023 Review

    My January was a contrast between fairly social and somewhat reclusive.

    Work

    It was quiet on the work front. If the week between Christmas and New Year is a “lost” week, meet the weeks between New Year and a Chinese New Year celebration that fell in January.

    Much of 2022 was pre-production for a TV show, in which I am a producer. We are currently in post-production, and I’m not needed full-time, leaving me with a lot of time to myself. You’d think this is the time I’d get started on other things (*cough* novel), but no – it was essential time for resting and getting bored.

    CNY

    My family are not big on celebrating the festive seasons, and both the dog and I are not big on fireworks. We had our usual reunion dinner with my brother and sister-in-law. I received an angpow from them because in our culture, pocket money is an adequate consolation prize to not having a spouse. I visited two close friends, spending the entire afternoon at the home of the second because all her visitors were also my mutual friends. Great time catching up. Quality over quantity. The dog spent most nights hunkered down under my bed in her new firework bunker. I have an upcoming post about this.

    Digital Migration

    I’m in the midst of migrating my passwords from LastPass to BitWarden, and my notes from Evernote to Obsidian.

    I’ve been subscribing to LastPass for maybe 2 years and their recent security issue meant that people on Mastodon were sharing alternatives. BitWarden caught my eye, not only because it’s open source, but because on a free account, I’m able to use it across all my devices.

    I didn’t realise Evernote was going through some issues as well since I barely use it anymore, but I did have notes that I want to transfer out to another app that supports syncing across devices for little to no money. Obsidian has a clean layout and a workaround that allows me to use it on several devices.

    Storium

    I kicked off a series of intro games for writers from Nanowrimo Malaysia, with some help from a local Storium friend. The new players did wonderfully, and I hope they’ll stay. We also started the new Nevermore (yes, the Netflix Wednesday one) game, which takes place in 1998 and featured the staff rather than the students. This one didn’t even require an open submission. We recruited a full cast on Slack.

    Tarot

    I’ve been reading tarot for a few years but I’ve not spoken about it here. I’ll make a proper post about it one of these days, but true to my nature, I’ve gathered several tarot readers I could find in Kuching and had a get-together. It’s a small niche community, which is my speciality. We had one meet-up in December and another one in January, simply because Andrea was back for the festive season. We added a couple of new faces and reconnected with some old friends, and it was a good time!

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